
EP 164: Why proving yourself has become your business's biggest block
In every high-achieving woman’s journey, she will realise:
The addiction was never to productivity.
It was to finally feel like she was enough.
We overwork. Overgive. Over-function.
Not because we lack clarity- but because our nervous system has equated success with survival.
In this episode, we explore what happens when you stop trying to earn your next level, and start allowing it.
We go deep into:
▪️ Why the need to prove is wired into your nervous system
▪️ How childhood conditioning created your overworking patterns
▪️ The hidden cost of staying in a proving loop
▪️ How to rewire your nervous system for presence, not performance
▪️ The key identity shift that unlocks sustainable, soul-led success
This episode is a sacred reminder:
You don’t need to prove your value.
You don’t need to hustle to deserve what you want.
You are already enough.
And when your body believes that—everything changes.
Reflection Questions:
Where am I still proving instead of allowing?
What belief about rest or receiving is ready to be released?
What would change in my business if I no longer needed to be “enough” to succeed?
The next round of Ascension Academy is coming.
This is the recalibration for visionary women who are ready to build and create high ticket offers from nervous system safety, not emotional survival.
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