Ep 157: I don't want to serve everybody.. and neither should you
What becomes possible when you stop pouring your energy into the wrong people and focus solely on those who are ready, self-led, and devoted to growth? Everything shifts.
There’s a reason you feel tired.
Not the kind of tired a weekend off will fix—the deep, draining exhaustion that comes from constantly managing the emotional weight of clients who aren’t meeting you in the work… from over-delivering in spaces that don’t match your capacity… from keeping your prices accessible at the expense of your own sustainability.
Somewhere along the way, you were taught that being of service meant being available to everyone.
That the more people you could help, the more valuable you became.
That saying no—or raising your standards—made you unkind, selfish, or “too much.”
But what if the very thing that’s keeping you stuck isn’t a lack of strategy or visibility, but the energetic leak created by holding people who were never meant to be in your spaces?
In this episode, I’m sharing the truth about why narrowing your focus to serve the ready, the committed, and the energetically aligned will not only transform your business—it will restore your joy, your vitality, and your ability to lead with clarity and confidence.
What You’ll Take Away:
✔️ Why people-pleasing and over-delivering are keeping you stuck at the same income, impact, and energy levels.
✔️ How low-boundary, high-output offers create unsustainable burnout cycles.
✔️ The shifts you can make to create high-caliber spaces that feel deeply nourishing for you and for your most aligned clients.
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RESOURCES:
If this episode resonated, here’s how we can go deeper together:
🔹 The SOUL-Aligned Offer System – A self-paced training to help you refine your offers so they feel spacious, aligned, and energetically sustainable.
🔹 1:1 Business & Energetic Alignment Intensive – A private deep-dive session to realign your business model, pricing, and energy with your next level. Book Here
🔹 Transcendence Mastermind – A high-caliber space for soulful entrepreneurs scaling to sustainable five-figure months without burnout.
Explore the links above or DM me on Instagram (@jessica.read.ilc) with your biggest takeaway from this blog.
Your business should nourish you—not drain you. Let’s build something that truly holds you. 💫
